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As someone studying femininity and elegance, I find that I adore vintage more and more. I just find the fashion and style of the 50's and 60's to be so much more feminine and elegant.
Go out into public today and take a look around at the women. Chances are, you'll see a lot of dark colors, baggy sweat clothes, and worn and torn jeans. You'll also see many women in tight clothes that show a lot of skin and cleavage.
In the 50's and 60's, women showed off their figures and their natural beauty without showing skin. There was just an elegant and natural femininity to them. They didn't feel the need to show off their breasts or thighs to be sexy. They could be tastefully sensual by just wearing tailored and colorful clothing.
Today, we're almost dumb in our quest for sexiness. We think sexiness is about an innuendo, a thigh, and some well-revealed cleavage. We've taken away the mystery of it all.
In the 50's and 60's, a woman could be just as sexy (most likely even more sexy) by wearing a non-revealing dress that was tailored to show off her beautiful waist, that had low straps designed to show off the delicate bone structure of her shoulders, and was short-sleeved to show off her great arms. A woman with pale skin and rosy cheeks could be sexy and alluring by wearing a dress in soft baby pink to bring out her cheeks. A woman with a darker coloring could wear jewel tones like emerald green and sapphire blue to pop against her hair.
I think that vintage time periods have a lot to tell us about femininity and what it truly means to be sexy.
Sexy isn't about how much skin you show, but it's about the way that you carry yourself, a natural sensuality, a sense of humor, and showing off what you've got without giving up the mystery of it all.
The women of vintage times balanced this out and I think that any woman seeking to become a high-quality feminine and elegant woman can benefit from taking inspiration from them.
This article was written by Nina Pundarik-Dossin, writer of The Proper Lady, a site that seeks to give women the resources that they need if they want to become elegant, feminine, and lovely ladies. To learn more about her work, her e-course First Steps to Femininity, and also about her as a person, visit her at her website (www.theproperlady.com) or contact her at firstname.lastname@example.org.